Is an msa unconscionable if it leaves spouse with nothing even if you know he/she doesnt have a job, no savings, no 401k, etc.?

From what you described, yes. But it is a much more in depth question that would require full screwed me and if warranted a return to court that...

Can I file motion for full custody during a pending divorce

Yes you can file and you probably should given the facts.

EMERGENCY! PLEASE HELP US. EXTREMELY COMPLICATED & LAWYER HASNT REPLIED SINCE8/29.SORRY FOR SHORTNESS.TOO MUCH INFO. IM SO LOST

You need to retain an attorney to protect yourself especially regarding the division.

How to proceed to get a No-Fault Divorce complaint based on irreconcilable differences in NJ?

You can and should file your complaint for divorce listing the grounds what with any relief that you need or want about children, finances, assess,...

In a divorce, when do 401k contributions and income from employers cease to be added into the marital property pool?

The date of the divorce complaint would generally hold for the time period When equitable distribution ends.

Do I need to fill out a cis form to file for child support

Yes. You do need to provide one so that all information can be exported regarding finances.

What can I do when the mother of my kids leave to anther state and then she demand for me to send the kids to her for visitation

She cannot move to another state with the kids without consent or court order.

My 22 old son just got arrested for domestic violence. What should I do?

He needs to hire a criminal lawyer or an experienced family law attorney.

Yes gifts between spouses are subject to equitable distribution.

Custody dispute

You should go back to court to adjust your schedule because the changes are unfair to you.