Can I move in a different state, job related, with my child if my ex did not see the child for an year and half? ( New Jersey).

You will have to seek consent or a court order but from your facts you may have a good likelihood of success.

Child support: Sending the court updated info?

You should go on the judiciary website and follow the directions for creating an account.

Can I get 50 percent of military pay after 36 years of marriage, 21 of those years in the service

Yes your entitlement will include his military retired pay. It can be a rather complicated process to speak to an attorney.

Do I still have to pay taxes on spousal support received?

If you were agreement was prior to December 31 then you will have to pay taxes

Can I start a case to get custody of a child if there is already an active order in another state which I wasn’t involved in?

You can try but you likely need consent.

Yes you can and should try it if your income has decreased.

You can get it retroactive to the date of filing a complaint for custody or divorce.

New Child Support/Emancipation

The statute says there needs to be specific information

Pandemic custody?

Yes you should be able to but tell the other party.

How do I get my ex into mediation if he ignores my message to go?

You can get a court order for mediation and if the other side does not comply you can ask the judge to trigger the request to them become a...