WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS OF BEING MARRIED FOR 9 1/2 yrs? What can/can't I do??

You should consult with an attorney promptly. You have the right to file for divorce, but it is impossible to give you answers about the financial...

You can expect to pay $400-$500 for a QDRO. You should not delay this any further and should get it prepared and executed as soon as possible.

My ex falsely claimed that she did not receive my motion package, but I’ve USPS tracking to proof that she is lying.

You should file the appropriate affidavit of service, (with your proof of delivery) in advance of the court date.

What would you recommend as the ratio split xpenses for 3 children's activities/ tuition and living expenses?

It may appear overly simplistic,(not taking into account other expenses) but your incomes are close to 2/3, 1/3 of the total family income....you...

I'm getting a divorce. My my car is in my soon to be exs name. I can't get a loan to refinance it. What happens now?

If you truly cannot get a loan to refinance the car (is it a credit issue?) you can include a provision in your settlement agreement (you didnt...

My ex wife is receiving disability checks for our son. Should this income be considered when calculating alimony payments?

Disability payments for a child are not normally considered the spouse's income for alimony purposes, but are taken into account when calculating...

What should I do?...

You and your attorney should be "on the same page" as far as your expectations of how your case is to proceed. If you and your attorney do not have...

You set forth your facts, but no question....

Do i legally have to pay my grandmother? Can my aunt take money out without my permission? What should i do? Please help!

It would appear that your grandmother was not justified in using the trust funds for your father's legal bills. This is a complicated matter, and...

What paperwork do I need to fill out to get all of this in writing, so he doesn't come to me and says anything.

This would depend on whether your existing custodial arrangement is memorialized in a Matrimonial Settlement Agreement, Divorce Judgment, or other...