Do i seek a lawyer and what kind?

The fact that you cosigned the loan means that you have contracted to be a responsible party for the payment of the loan. When you say that this...

What steps do I need to take in getting this handled?

It seems like you may need to hire a different attorney.

The NJ residency requirement for divorce is one year.

Can he file abandonment?

"She" needs far more assistance than can be obtained on line. I would not recommend that :she" leave and then try to come back for the children....

Can 16 yr olds in Vermont make a choice of who they want to live with despite an existing 50/50 court order?

The Court Order that is currently in effect has to be obeyed until such time as there is another Court Order that supersedes it. Your fiance should...

My wife is drawing up a separation agreement with her lawyer, should I have it reviewed. And if not what should I look for?

You should ABSOLUTELY have this document reviewed. Your wife has an attorney, and you need one as well. An attorney will not only review the...

If she married and had a baby out of wedlock is she suppose to allowed the boyfriend to sign birth certificate at hospital.?

The real issue is for you to establish that you are this child's biological father. There is a presumption that if a married woman gives birth,...

Is residential custody and child support possible against my ex girlfriend?

It certainly is possible. You need to have the appropriate Motion filed and make a compelling case as to why it is in your children's best...

What exactly does this mean?

There is no way to give you an accurate answer without actually being able to read the document. However, many Family Law attorney give a free...

What will happen if I move states and have a legal visition order in place?

Full custody does not mean that you can move the child out of state. To do so, you need a written agreement between you and the father (and that...