HOW DOES A GRANDPARENT REQUEST TEMPORARY CUSTODY OF THE GRANDCHILDREN IN NJ? WHAT GROUNDS WOULD I NEED TO PROVE TO OBTAIN CUSTOD

You would file an application in court, in the best interests of the children. Include all possible evidents as well as a certification from you.

4th DUI offense

NJ is very strict. Other than re-opening one of your cases due to ineffective assistance of counsel, you will have to complete the time of suspension.

Can I still become a US citizen after a divorce

It appears you may apply for citizenship, although a bit more information is needed.

Do i get alimony after 32 of marriage? in NJ,i don't work , had 3 aneurysm brain surgery,and i have 2 more to fellow .

Yes, you should definitely request alimony. Read "Crews vs Crews" for a good explanation of alimony.

Can I claim my EAD through my spouse, while, my divorce case is pending in the court?

Although you can't contest the divorce, you must contest the annulment. You will get your EAD when you adjust your status. It sounds like you will...

Can my spouse file i130 for me if we live with a family or friend?

It sounds like you will be able to prove you have a legitimate marriage.

If she wants to visit the U.S. she needs to apply for a visa at her consulate. She does not need an invitation from you.

Post Divorce and providing information to non-custodial parent

You do not have to give him a daily notification of your child's whereabouts. However, you should keep him informed regarding your child's general...

Does the citizenship acquisition date matter to the us citizen applying for a spouse visa ?

The date of your spouse's naturalization is not relevant to his petition, unless there is a reason to suspect fraud.

Should I be worried about my first criminal charge?

If this is your first offense you may ask the prosecutor for a conditional discharge.