If my ex-spouse is in arrears of alimony by over $12,000 can he take me to court to reduce or eliminate my spousal support?

He would have to prove a permanent change in circumstances for alimony to be reduced. He will still owe the arrears. If possible get an attorney.

Do I need a lawyer because my answer to the complaint was returned because it was "out of time"?

Call the court and explain this. An attorney would really help.

I am a disable widow of 51 and I am reviving widow's divisibility on my spouse's Social Security It seems low can i get more ?

I can't advise you on the letter you got without seeing it. However, every letter SS sends says you have 60 days to appeal. If you got a positive...

The court will probably not dismiss it on the first date scheduled. It would be quicker if you went in and explained you want to drop the charges.

My ex-spouse is seeking to have alimony decreased. Can I have legal charges against him re-instated as they were part of $$?

I do not understand the correlation between your alimony and criminal charges against him. I don't understand how criminal prosecution was halted....

I live in NJ and am divorced and ordered to pay alimony is there a time when the order will expire?

There is no statute of limitations for enforcing an alimony award. There is a general argument of "laches", meaning too much time has passed. ...

Can I remove the conditions on my green card based on 3 evidences of good faith marriage?

Based on the information you provide the case is weak, absent a showing of abuse. If you have pictures prior to marriage of significant past it...

My friend married a green card holder 4 months ago can she as a Canadian citizen go to the states and live with husband ?

I agree with my colleagues. If he is eligible to become a US citizen the process will be much faster.

Shortly after our divorce became final, my ex-husband recorded a forged deed transferring my share of joint home to him.

You need to move quickly on this, preferably with an attorney. There are issues here in family as well as with criminal.

I am a green card holder how long i could stay out of America ?

You should return before 6 months. You should also get a re-entry permit before you leave for some assurance. I agree with Mr. Mark's response.