How badly have I destroyed life by being charged with allegedly embezzlement of hundreds of thousands?

Please accept my sympathy for your situation. I cannot imagine the pressure and stress that you must be experiencing. However, do not post any more...

My kids father was arrested at work and is being accused of a charges under a different person name,and convicted in 1993...

Not sure of your question. If you need an attorney feel free to call.

What should I testify in this situation?

You should tell the truth.

You should tell the truth.

My husband was beaten in jail and died. We lived in New Jersey; this happened in another state. Can I sue for wrongful death?

You may have a claim but the statute of limitations may have run. Please call to discuss in greater detail.

I do not intend on renewing my tenant's yearly lease in NJ. How do I best handle this. This lease started 3/1/12 & ends 2/28/13.

Send a written termination of the lease within the time proscribed by the lease citing the volations etc and send it via certified mail, return...

I have a minor trasspassing violation that the cop gave me a ticket for.

Do you mean for a fine or fees? More information is needed: were you charged with a municipal ordinance or a disorderly persons offense? Please...

The state of Ohio arbitrarily issued me a social security card, with my then common law relationship name.

You may wish to try the social security administration or retaining an attorney to go to court.

Can I get arrested for this?

first off, do not discuss this on the internet any further as there is no expectation of privacy. Second, do not speak to the police without an...

Were my rights violated? I informed the N.J. courts that I was indigent and I only receive $200 a month in food stamps no cash..

Much more information is needed.