I was awarded a qdro 11 yrs ago when my husband and i divorced...if i really need money right now can i take that early

You need to discuss this with the Plan Administrator. As a general principle, assuming the QDRO was properly executed, you can seek disbursement...

You can do both at the same time. Request from the court to modify the prior Order to reflect actual living arrangements, and also seek to modify...

Can I have my agreement modified to have my children more time?

Custody agreements can be modified by consent or by Court order. Every situation is different and every child is different. So you should discuss...

Can i get further extension from the court after getting a 30 day extension from my husband's attorney?

You have 35 days to respond from date of service, so just check that your filing date satisfies the court rule.

What happens to the divorce petition/complaint which is never served to respondent?

You have a reasonable amount of time to serve. There are court rules about this and it really should be done quickly. The Court will eventually...

Can a spoysal support notarized piece of paper hold up in court

Potentially. Depends on the facts. Did both of you abide by it; would it be unfair to set it aside; many other questions need to be considered. ...

How do I determine whether to use a mediator or lawyer for a potential uncontested divorce ?

Both can work for you. If you retain a mediator, each of you should still retain counsel to review the settlement and offer legal perspective.

Can my ex-husband prevent me from having a sister or relative move into our house to help me during the divorce?

Nothing good can happen with this. Your husband may even allege that you are engaging in a form of harassment, opening the doors to domestic...

If an incentive is provided as part of a voluntary retirement offer during a marriage does that incentive count as 100% marital?

The pension and the incentive would typically be considered marital assets, subject to equitable distribution. Also, subject to whether they...

Can i fill divorce settlement agreement with my wife we agreed that no one need or will sue the other part for anything ?

Your question is a bit over-broad. Agreements are not always complete or 100% enforceable; whether or not witnessed. You will need a properly...