Its been 13 months since i filed for N400 and my case is still pending?

That is unusually long. It may or may not be a problem, but either way you should deal with it. Consult with a lawyer to determine how to proceed.

Removing conditions from green card which shoplifting arrest

Please do not repeat your questions. The answers will remain the same. Your case will not be approved while you are on probation. YOu may or may...

NJ uses the term indictable crime, which is the equivalent of a felony.

Do applying for welfare services like food stamp affect negatively immigration case ?

Yes. Receiving benefits to which you are not entitled will affect your immigration status.

Am i still considered a legal alien at this point?

You are still considered a refugee/asylee, as you have been.

Will I get my biometric and interview for n400? In the state in which I'm using the mailing address?

It should be scheduled in the state where you live.

Will conditional discharge prevent me from getting a US Tourist Visa?

It might. Consular officials have broad and virtually unfettered discretion. At minimum you will have to prove the outcome of your case. YOu should...

Is it advisable to file for a US tourist visa while a fiancée visa application is being processed? Could it hurt?

A fiance petition is an immigrant intent petition. A tourist visa is a non-immigrant intent visa. It is almost certain to be denied because they...

I 751 while being on probation for shoplifting?

It is likely you can remove the conditions of your green card, but you will be required to produce documents about your criminal case and you may...

No. They do not get sealed. The charge is dismissed, but the records still exist. To make the records "disappear" you need to complete an...