Married 18yrs, husband indicated he wants to separate. Anything legal I can already do now to protect my financial interests?

Based on all the questions you raise you would be best to formally consult with counsel. The questions posed dont really lend themselves to...

My husband works f/t and I've been a stay at home parent since birthing our now 18 yr old triplets. He has cut off all finances.

There are many issues you raise which require greater detail. For example it is unclear how long you have been married. ....although it appears to...

How do i go about a divorce with alimony. I am on social security

Your question does not give enough facts to answer. You should schedule a formal consultation with counsel.

Am I liable for half his debt if we divorce?

All marital debts will be equitably distributed. This does not necessarily mean equal. The mortgage is also a marital debt assuming it was acquired...

A motion can be filed to modify. Likelihood of success depends on merits. You should consult counsel.

How are funds distributed in NJ from being awarded half of your partner's annuity?

The Qdro is meant to ensure that you receive the monies in a tax free manner. The monies would be rolled over into a retirement account in your...

Is verbal abuse and intimidation a valid cause for divorce and considered domestic abuse.

Abuse does not have to be physical in nature to necessarily be considered domestic violence. As for divorce, a complaint can be filed under...

I've decided to file for divorce and am considering if I should request for alimony to come through probate.

If paid through probation they will monitor payments and arrears. Ultimately they also take enforcement action if the obligor is delinquent. ...

The reccomendation itself is not an order. However either parry can petition the court to codify the recommendation in an order.

What if you are still living in the same household as your spouse, can you still file?

The fact that the parties are still living together does not precent you from proceeding with a divorce action. You should consult with a family...