Do I have to follow a court order that is not signed?

If you know that is what was ordered, yes you have to comply.

The negative tests are good. But there other issues they may be pursuing.

Would these be the reason why they were at my parents door or would it be something else?

Hard to tell, but yes, it could be the same case.

Can someone other than myself meet my ex wife for the scheduled custody exchange of our children?

She can demand that, but she can’t enforce that. A court will not have a problem with the circumstances you describe.

What are my legal options with my former spouse that forged my name on legal documents submitted to court to get more alimony?

We can’t estimate how long your judge will take to rule. You can call chambers to ask, politely.

Am I able to have my child’s father spend a few nights even though he isn’t on my lease?

I’m not sure why you believe it would be a problem.

Will the court decrease child support due to loosing my Job?

Usually will need an unemployment for a little longer than 3 months.

What do I need to bring with me to file for child support in New Brunswick New Jersey ?

Tax returns, paystubs, money for filing fee.

Lawsuit is the next step if she doesn’t return it.

How will I know if I get alimony

You might be entitled to alimony but if he is in jail, alimony is unlikely. You should meet with a local divorce attorney to discuss the specific...