It all depends. Have you cooperated? Has a CIS been prepared?

Can you find out if I have anything pending?

You can call the family division manager’s office and ask if there is any pending action with your name.

Can I in that same motion do my name change or is that two separate motions?

You can do both in the same motion.

How can I stay in my home without being harassed?

The police cannot restrict you from living in your home, unless she has obtained a restraining order.

You cannot go after “her” salary for alimony or child support. If he is legitimately unemployed for more than a few months, he will be entitled...

Can I ask for my name back when I file the motion for an absolute divorce?

You can file a motion for that relief.

If I withdrew my counter complaint in a divorce hearing (I am the defendant) can I file a motion ?

Yes, you can file a motion to convert to an absolute divorce.

Do I respond to the adversary’s response to my motion?

Yes. You can file a Reply 8 days prior to the return date.

Child Exchanges with FRO?

Police station is an option, but probably not something you want to expose your children to. She is not accurate that this is your responsibility,...

Can I sue my husband for mental pain and suffering caused to me and my children? He is asking for divorce ?

You may be entitled to alimony, child support and distribution of assets. But not for additional compensation for what you describe.