Do I have any recourse years later after a stupid decision ?

Almost certainly too much time has passed to make an application on these facts.

Put in writing to your ex- your proposal for parenting time until the court date. If she refuses, let the court know.

Recovering my Alimony?

You probably need to hire an attorney to assist you with filing the motion.

Can I sue???

Without knowing the facts, no one can answer this question. You need to meet with a malpractice attorney to review your case. If the negligence...

“Through Sunday” almost certainly means until Monday morning.

II haven't seen my husband in 22 years can I get a divorce and how?

You need to file for divorce. And you need to find him or get the court’s permission to serve him in another way.

Can I not put the biological father on a birth certificate?

If he is the father, you have an obligation to not falsify a birth record.

My ex husband keeps taking me back to court because he loses. Can I file harrassment or what can I do to get him to stop?

If the child is a full time student, he will not succeed. If you have an attorney, you can ask for counsel fees.

How can I get my children passports?

You’ll the other parent’s written consent or a court order permitting it.

CAN I FILE FOR VISITING RIGHTS PRO SE (AND HOW?) AND CAN YOU HELP ME.

It won’t happen quickly. I suggest you hire an attorney to get the process started.