The mother of my children left to another state (NY) had her husband file court proceedings on her behalf for our children

You need to hire an attorney in NY to file an application for parenting time and challenge the amount of child support, if you think it is...

If I'm going thru a divorce and in my reliefs I'm asking for 50% of the 2 lawsuits hes getting his lawyer is saying that I dont

It depends upon what the lawsuits are about. If personal injury, it is likely not subject to a 50/50 split, unless there is a lost wages...

What are my options if ex was arrested for harassment of someone else and I am concerned about safety of child?

Unless you seek relief from the court, you will have to abide by the Orders in place. You should seek relief.

No counseling will be ordered. You should just file.

Where can I find information about divorce laws in NJ. Such as what determines who pays child support or alimony and how much?

All assets acquired during the marriage are likely to be split 50/50. You can trade off assets against each other. But if you and he don’t...

Once you file the Answer that confirms your service and the Court is unlikely to require the A/S.

Is there a form that I can fill out to terminate the mother of my children right

There is no form. Only DCPP can do that.

Of course he can’t. But you’ll need to get a court order to stop him.

Probably not, as the delay was certainly approved by the Court.

You may have to file a motion to make her reveal that information.