Was a mistake married for 9months what’s the process for divorce?

Process is same for any marriage. File for divorce.

Married 9months how do I start the procedure for divorce?

See prior answer. Hire attorney or file pro se.

How do I start the procedure

What procedure? Divorce? You can hire a lawyer or go to court and obtain copies of pro se filing instructions.

Can me as the father lose my visitation/ overnight time with my daugther if I can afford a 2 bedroom ?

Doubtful. The court may want to make sure your child is safe, but I doubt you would lose overnights on this issue

Do I have a strong case to sue ?

If DCPP wasn’t involved, I doubt your rights were terminated. He may have sole custody. But your obligation to our child support is inherent in...

Can my daughters father make it so my mother is not allowed to see my child?

What is his reasoning? Is your mother a threat or danger to the child? If not, no.

Just because the assets acquired during marriage are subject to ED, doesn’t mean it should be 50/50. That’s the issue you should press. She is...

If you are separated, child custody and support can be litigated in what is referred to a FD action.

What can I do about harassing, extremely hurtful texts from someone ?

First, block her from texting you. Second, you can file a police report and discuss whether any of the texts rise to the level of harassment or...

What do i do?

She should file for divorce. Absent domestic violence, there is no other way to force a separation.