If I live in New Jersey for 2 years and my spouse lives in New York where do I file for divorce

If you have lived in NJ for at least 1 year, you can file here in NJ.

Maybe. You really need a detailed consultation with an experienced family law attorney. Your case is fact-sensitive, and complicated.

No. The pension was earned prior to the marriage and is thus an exempt asset.

Can Someone legally married in NY, but lives with his girlfriend for 19 years in New Jersey fall under the domestic partnership?

There is no cognizable action for the pain suffered due to “cheating”. Moreover, wasn’t he cheating with her, on his Wife?

Judges are likely to require additional payments toward car insurance.

Can I loose custody of my kids because I cheated ?

No. Your cheating is totally irrelevant to child custody, unless you exposed your child to a dangerous person.

If you separated 8 years ago, alimony is unlikely unless he has been supporting you all this time. I strongly suggest you consult a family law...

If if child support is placed on a father when a baby is 1 years old, does he have to pay from the time of birth?

Child support is only retroactive to the date you file for support.

Hire an attorney. A case that simple is very reasonably priced.

Divorce filing correct file name

If you cannot do it, you should hire an attorney. If the case is uncontested, it won’t be that expensive.