Can I still appeal my case if I follow the Court Order to avoid Contempt and Attorneys fees?

Even if you file a notice of appeal you have to comply with the order unless the Judge or the Appellate Division grants you a Stay of the order....

Can i get an excuse from a child support hearing that is schedule on a date that i will be out of the country?

If you contact the court they will certainly adjourn it to a new date.

If i have a restraining order against someone and they keep contacting my family and boss to tell me a message can they get in t

Yes. Indirect messages are violations of the FRO. You should report each violation.

Do I have to file an eviction to get my husband completely out of my house?

You cannot evict your spouse. If that is the marital home, he can only be removed by way of a domestic violence restraining order, or perhaps...

A child needs to be seen for regular checkups with a dentist. This is pretty basic stuff.

Is it true that my income can be used to calculate child support payments for my husband's kids from a previous relationship?

Your income is irrelevant to his child support obligation.

Can I file for wage garnishment

You always have the option to seek wage garnishment. But the payments won’t come any sooner.

Yes you do. And you’ll be required to conduct a diligent inquiry to find him.

Do i need to pay child support if my son is 20 years old and ho to college and the court already emancipated him

Your ex- would have to obtain an order in-emancipating your son.

My twins have attended pre K since 2016. They are now in first grade. My ex is suggesting that we alternate schools every year.

No judge would ever order the children to change schools every year.