I was ordered to pay my ex's legal fees by the state of NJ but can't afford to, what can I do?

Contact the attorney directly to try to work out a payment plan.

I am currently receiving a child support in NJ but it does not include the baby sitting...can I get a motion in that?

You need to file a motion to amend child support to include the child care, if it is work-related child-care.

Can I get married at 16?

If your parents consent in writing, you can get married at 16.

I am 15 and my boyfriend 19 can he sign the babies birth certificate?

If you conceived the child at 16 or under, your boyfriend committed statutory rape, unless he was within 4 years of your age. How old were you and...

How can I bring a law suit against my husband if we have been separated for 6 months?

You can file for divorce, or you can file simply a support application.

Can I change my status at my marriage license from never married before to a widow?

Why would the lack of a death certificate make you answer that question falsely in the first instance?

If the child lives with him, you have a current child support obligation to him. But he still owes you the arrears. If the child has graduated...

Can my ex claim more of the furniture from our joint property to compensate him for the value of my personal property?

Inherited property is exempt. You and he should “equitably” divide the rest.

Who writes a prenup ?

Matrimonial lawyers write pre-nups.

Would a judge be more inclined to give custody of a 3 year old boy to father when wife hid money from family?

These facts are unlikely to impact any custody decision.