What advice would you give for someone who had previous marriage and kids but wants to marry again to a foreign citizen?

You should have a valid premarital Agreement prepared and executed.

Am I entitled to alimony and equitable distribution for my case? If yes, how much?

In such a short marriage, alimony is unlikely, and even if award d, would be for a very short time.

Am I going to owe Irs on my alimony?

She is going to owe income tax on the alimony. Since her case was finalized in 2018, her alimony will remain taxable. Had she been divorced in...

Can I call The clerks office in the state of NJ to drop a TRO? Before court

You need to appear in court on the final hearing. Date and advise the court that you don’t wish to pursue the final order.

How do I sue my ex husband, I was with him for 30 years , I live in Amman and he lives in America, I got divorced in New Jersey?

What does your final judgment or settlement agreement say in these issues?

My kids have been emancipated and father still owes me about 37, 000 on arrears in the state of new jersey, can I still collect

You can always enforce arrears. Problem will be getting paid, based upon his lack of income.

Can I file child support modification that was part of a separation agreement ?

You can always file pro se. you can also perform surgery on yourself without the assistance of a physician. Neither one is smart.

What recourse do I have if my ex was cashing checks on my business account for 6 years also signed and pre morages forms I was

Generally she will say that you authorized those checks. Especially where it happened for such a long period of time.

If the acuser in a TRO lists a address for no contact and moves from the address can the defandant go to the residence.?

If the address is listed in the Order, you’ll need to make an application to amend the order.

Sounds like a serious charge. I think your Husband dose have a right to know the circumstances of the event and his background.