What legal rights do i have?

You would need the court’s permission to re-locate the child. You need representation in what is sure to be a contentious divorce.

How long divorce will take?

It’s ok depends upon what you are fighting over. Cases can last 12-18 months if contentious. I suggest you consult an attorney.

If I do not want to press charges against my spouse and state picks it up..what will happen?

He needs an attorney. The prosecutor can prosecute without your cooperation.

Can i as a ex-wife and living together for 15 yrs can my alcoholic ex kick me out.we have grandkids we watch every weekend

More facts are needed. I suggest you have a consultation with an experienced family law attorney.

They are investigating your son’s life. They are investigating everything. If they suspect the comment your son made was not truthful, they will...

What is considered admissible evidence to bring to court ?

An private investigator can testify at trial if he witnesses this.

Can reasons or grounds for divorce details be listed on any legal checks or disclosure?

This does not show up on any background check.

I was awarded my car in the divorce. my ex won't sign off so I can get it registered unless I pay him 3300 from the marriage

File an enforcement motion. If the Judgment doesn’t require a $3,300 payment, then you don’t have to make it.

Can I file a motion for contempt of court for past support my ex was ordered to pay but never did. He's now the custodial parent

Yes. If he owes it the court will enforce. But you should have an obligation to him for current support.

How do I find out if my ex received funds from class action lawsuits of which my divorce decreed I am to receive 50%?

Ask him for the details. If he refuses, duke a motion seeking the information.