Feelings are just that, not necessarily true. It’s understandable your are concerned and nervous. Control what you can for now: 1. Don’t post on...

How will this affect me in the long run? Will this stay permanently in my record?

You need to get an attorney to represent you so that this does not become a final restraining order, which has vast implications. Yes, harassment...

Should we get our own lawyer and what are the chances of him getting out with out doing major time

He needs to hire as excellent a defense attorney he can afford, right now! He should not speak to anyone about the case, except his lawyer.

What am I possibly facing when I finally decide to face the problem and show up to court

Your question is nuanced. It depends upon the temperament of the judge and prosecutor. No one here that has a "definite" answer can possibly know....

What am I suppose to do? Is that even legal?

Something does not seem right with what you posted. You should of course hire an attorney to deal with this. In all my years of practice this had...

Much more information is needed. But in most cases at sentencing, arguments like the ones you suggest can be made and the judges have SOME...

Disorderly persons convictions are NOT crimes in NJ. "Crimes" are convictions for 1st-4th degree violations. DPs are "offenses" not crimes under...

I agree with my colleagues. NJ.com just did an article on this that will help you understand the issues and how police and prosecutors are...

It is upon the recommendation of the prosecutor and ultimately the judge makes the call on the length of the term. If you get PTI, it will be for...

What is my next move?

1. Don't speak to anyone except an attorney about the case;' 2. Get and attorney to fight the case. If you qualify for a PD is up to court and...