I have been married for the past 20 year with 2 kids (Daughter 19yrs, Son 10yrs). I need divorce from my wife.

I'm not sure anyone can provide an answer to your question. Perhaps it is best to go to counseling and try and reach a mutual understanding and...

Is there somewhere to get a lawyer to represent me that is based on my income? I can not afford a lawyer. I'm in Bergen County

You should try and meet with an attorney who offers free consults who may work out an arrangement with you.

Should I file for a child support modification since my ex is working less hours? Is this beneficial?

I agree that at this time the court will not likely view this as a permanent change requiring a modification

Can I ask the court to issue an order that when any of the parents remarried, the other parent is informed? is this the standard

I agree that unless there is some obligation on you that changes if she remarries there is no reason for you to know. You would not be able to...

Im desperate.only five months since my husband left and its a chaos

I believe you posted an earlier question with similar facts. You need to immediately seek an attorney to assist you. Many offer free...

Immigrant Husband Threatening Me

You need to immediately consult an attorney. The answer is too long to post here and it would require going over all the facts of your...

NCP doing much better now

I agree that if your child is still in college you may file a motion seeking contribution from the other parent.

I agree with what has been stated. You may, however, speak to the judge if you have any particular reason for not wanting to testify and the judge...

Filing a motion

It should be sent to your attorney. The attorney is required to make service on counsel of record. If done correctly it should only take a day or...

I'll be taking child to school during my visits, but I need to pay before/after care, can I ask court to get mom pay her share

What you state here is no reason for a judge to remove the children. You should confer with an attorney. Many offer free consultations.