What do I do legally when my ex wont press charges on sexual violence on the aggressor but she has my kids around him willingly?

If you have sincere and legitimate concerns for the health, safety, and welfare of the children it should get a child protective agency involved...

Can I sue or counter sue for her causing me to have ptsd and anxiety? Also can I request custody of the unbio child and my kid?

Although it is unfortunate you are dealing with such a difficult situation, it does not appear you would have a cause of action against your ex. ...

How (as rare as it sounds) do i as a male take action on acts of domestic violence and abuse thats occurred to me

Please consult with an attorney, but there appears to be more than just the potential domestic violence going on. While certain acts described...

Am I still obligated to pay alimony or would I be on solid ground to stop and fight in court if I need to?

I agree that you should first look to any agreement or the judgment of divorce. If it is not addressed in those documents you should consult an...

Has she given up her rights as PPR and custody?

You should consult an attorney who can sit down and go over all the facts. It will matter how and why the child was sent to you, and the...

What are the hearing procedures & penalties of a temporary custody case. How long before the trail etc.

You should retain an attorney. A judge is not likely to consider the matter without all the necessary information unless the Judge find that a...

I agree with what has been stated and only add that in the context of any enforcement action make sure a complete investigation is done into other...

You do need to consult an attorney. The issue is that it is difficult to assess what a child this age may have experienced and the impact of any...

Can he be emancipated from his father?

The child will not be emancipated under these circumstances. I agree that a guardian ad litem should be appointed who can petition the court on...

What are my options if my wife refuses to come with me ? Can I then file for divorce in North Carolina ?

I agree with what has been stated and you say you are currently in New Jersey but you do not say how long you have been in the state. It will all...