Can I take my car back that I let my 21 year old child drive?

I think you need to go back to court and modify the court order.

Can I move out of state legally with 16 year old son ?

If there isn't any court order, my advice is to move where you want with your child.

I need to file a contempt in court?

If he is not doing what was court ordered, I suggest you file a contempt motion. without knowing his side of the argument, I can't tell you who had...

Since it is a court order, hire an attorney and file a contempt motion. Do it sooner rather than later.

You need to get a child support order. Once that is established, and he doesn't pay, you could put a lien on his house.

DUI in Connecticut and applying for Alcohol education program

The program requires notice to the victim. The program will not be granted if no notice was provided.

He was granted some type of diversionary program. If he didn't complete same, his case will publicly available.

Can i terminate my probation early if I haven't finished my DUI classes and my DUI classes aren't a "condition of my probation"?

Have your public defender request that your probation be transferred to the state that you want to move to.

What can I do ?

If you entered the AE program, your probation officer would have told you what program to enter. There shouldn't have been a problem. Ask the court...

Can I file for insurance and things like that ?

If you are no longer living in Ct., you can receive benefits in NY. Also, if you are on your mother's insurance, you can still use it as long you...