Who gets automatic custody of the child the mother or the father

If you are asking which of the two parents the children would automatically live with, the answer is that there is no automatic. A judge has to...

My husband left me and our 2 children 4 years ago,not divorced yet and no custody order in place I want to move to another state

The state that would have the right to adjudicate the issues of custody would be the state where the children have resided for the previous six...

Is there a calculation for how much money I could recieve for child support in Ma after or during a divorce?

You should meet with a lawyer to have him/her run a child support guidelines calculation for you.

No one in a marriage can force another to work outside the home. If there is a divorce the issue of you working will come into play t some point...

My divorce lawyer has my quit claim deed, has had it since my divorce and will not answer my calls she is NOT owed any money.

Your lawyer is required to provide that deed to you whether or not you owe them money. I would call the office and tell them a day and time you...

Can my husband threaten to commit me all the time?

Your husband is not vested with the power to commit you. Only proper authorities with proper justification can do that. Sounds like time to get...

I am the biological father of male child

You cant simply write to a judge. You need to file papers regarding parenting time with the court that entered the current orders. I imagine the...

Can my husband use emails he found on my personal home computer against me in our divorce?

Most likely yes. Perhaps not as direct evidence but the standard for evidence used to impeach false testimony is much less. Since you are bound...

A local attorney or a outside attorney?

Judges have their own ways of doing things are allowed a great deal of latitude in making decisions. The best thing you can do is get a lawyer who...

Conflict of interest?

No, numerous jurisdictions have a limited number of judges. To make that an event that requires recusal would create a nightmare for courts. If...