Do I have a case against Insurance co for violating privacy law ?

This is certainly not a civil rights question. Generally, one does not have an expectation of privacy outside.

What legal grounds do I have for this and is there a lawsuit against the police dept or civil suit against this police officer?

You have done the right thing making an internal complaint. Because it is unclear how long ago this was done, it is not clear whether it is taking...

Should I be paying for these surgery even if they are responsible for these major issues that I've had? What actions can I take?

A poor result is not the same thing as a mistake that qualifies as medical malpractice. Before your first surgery, you were given a consent form to...

An autopsy is helpful but not critical. You will have to convince your great-grandfather to obtain the records for review before you can know if...

Is there any way whatsoever that I can legally get her out of my place right now instead of waiting on the court case?

The family court can enter appropriate orders.

My question is do I have a course of action against him for turning my paycheck over to someone other than myself without cause?

Your partner has a lawyer. You should get one, too. Clearly there are financial issues that are about to come up with the dissolution. You will...

Who can help?

Passing a car on a highway is not violating a restraining order. Following someone may be. You should get representation for the restraining order...

Can the finance company persue the co-signer (my mother in-law) while my wife and I are in chapter 13, or can we include it?

The bankruptcy stay does not apply to the co-signer. The bank can pursue whatever remedies it has against the co-signer.

I guess my question is would I have a case and what type of lawyer should I look for?

Based on what you've written, you have no case.

Would it be illegal to use the money in the joint account to pay the bills at the house?

The son can use the money from a joint account. Also, if you are using the money to pay the father's utility bills, you will not have a problem.