Can my mom throw my $1.9k shoes away out of anger, and not be legally held accountable?

This is not a civil rights question and you have approximately zero % chance of getting your mom arrested.

How can someone be falsely arrested for a gun when no gun was found

There may be a witness who has given a statement that the police are using to charge you.

If called for a medical emergency response such as an overdose, can the police go through draws then charge you?

This is not a civil rights violation. You invited the police into the house. They looked for drugs to address the life-threatening situation...

If someone signs a lawsuit settlement check over to me and i deposit it into my checking account is that money legally mine

The question can't be answered based only on whether the check was signed and deposited in your account. Find a local lawyer ASAP and tell that...

He can charge whatever he wants. If you get help with a landlord-tenant attorney (and Connecticut has legal aid lawyers in various courts if you...

There are many ways they can prove these charges. You may be on surveillance footage, and there may be witnesses. You should hire a lawyer ASAP.

Should I hire a lawyer?

You need a local lawyer and may need lawyers in the other states. If you can't hire someone by your court date, tell the prosecutor you are hiring...

What should I do if there is a police car driving by my driveway and it is all caught in my surveillance camera?

You should do literally nothing. Perhaps the police presence will stop the behavior that led you to getting cameras. Maybe other people complained...

Can I make a arrangement with child support so they don't take all my lawsuits money?

.Lately, DSS has not been negotiating child support arrearages. They take all of the money due you and allow the medical and legal costs to be...

What specific kind of lawyer do I need to contact for a case that would include police brutality?

Nothing you describe here sounds like police brutality. Talk this over with your criminal attorney who will know more of the facts and can possibly...