Will violating probation result in another violation for a seperate conviction?

I obviously agree with prior counsel, you definitely should not handle this on your own. Retain an experienced criminal defense attorney.

Can a male judge ask a female who she is having sex with, under oath?

I believe that is judicial misconduct. You will need a lawyer to help you with this. File a grievance against him/her for judicial misconduct.

Caught stealing at walmart in CT

Your best bet is to hire an attorney and hopefully get out of there with no record

Depending on your agreement, you should have insisted on her buying you out and taking the mortgage out in her name. Consider filing a Motion for...

Does my childs mother have to notify myself or court if a new boyfriend starts living with her and my son? (joint legal custody)

That depends on your separation agreement, check to see if that is in your agreement.

Full straining order same as eviction? What to do with tenants stuff?

You can throw it all out, he/she had their chance to come and take their belongings.

I am 18 years old, can I leave home without parental consent and what if they get cops involved?

Yes at 18 you are an adult and can do what you want, just remember you are also responsible

You can certainly file a motion to modify, but you can't unilaterally do it. You must obey the order of the court.

What are the consequences ?

Ask for a continuance to hire an attorney, it sounds like you are going to need one.

Just to be sure, have your defense attorney check with probation and states attorney