Your options are: 1) go to counseling for two sessions (you need not indicate that you want to reconcile); or 2) do nothing and the "cooling...

Is a DWI considered a criminal offense?

You may want to check to see if that is still part of her record because it was so long ago. Maybe the case was ultimately dismissed. If it is...

You should seek Counsel in your local area that is familiar with the court and lawyers near you. It will save time and money.