Is it possible a judge would decline my ex wife request to reinstate a child support order

As a general rule, you can assume that any parent who has primary residence of their child will receive or be eligible for support. Courts feel...

If there are no points assesses in CT, will there be points assessed in NJ?

What New Jersey does with the information they may receive from Connecticut is up to them. You need to speak to a New Jersey attorney.

Can they possibly obtain custody

If there is evidence of what you allege, the likelihood is no.

Can kids mother modify visitation and set stricter provisions regarding children wellbeing and get full custody later on?

With all due respect, a fact situation that you describe inevitably has tons more information that is not being disclosed. Regardless, there is so...

What are her options

This is really a landlord tenant question. But, under landlord tenant law, if your girlfriend has an established residency at the property, her...

Can grandparents with guardianship just move out of state with the child and their child's mother without court permission?

Regardless of whether the current status of the father's visitation case is pre- or post-judgment, you simply cannot move. Doing so could result...

In general, if the GAL's recommendation and the recommendation of the Psych Evaluator match, is it likely the Judge will agree?

Since you have two independent sources agreeing, the likelihood is that their joint recommendation will be accepted. Of course, if you feel there...

I would support your attorney's opinion as he has a much greater grasp of the current situation.

What are the pros and cons of me 1) adopting versus 2) establishing guardianship?

You seem very hesitant to want to adopt this child. There are many advantages to an adoption as well as potential risks of adoption as well as...

Are there any allowances for this situation? Is there anything I can do?

I agree with Attorney Hoffman. You might just have to wait out his period of incarceration.