What does your Divorce Judgment say about repair bills? This does not need a 100 character answer.

Your Husband cannot dictate child custody. Don't go this alone. Hire an Attorney.

Can you find a medical expert who can your Husband is fit and able to return to work?

Hire A Lawyer To File A Motion For The Mental Health Exam. You're question indicates you're not capable or qualified to do this on your own.

Maybe Not. If you hire a good lawyer.

Hire a lawyer ASAP. Loads of issues here. If you're not a lawyer don't go near it. Good Luck!!

Doesn't sound like the Judge thinks the so called infractions are a earth shattering as you do. Are you nit picking? I suggest you retain an...

Sounds like a complex situation. Your situation may be ripe for a restraining order, separation, divorce, etc. I can't make that determination...

Good Questions. And, as you note, it can get complicated. Most lawyers put in 3 or more years of hard study and then have to pass a bar exam to...

Don't let your "friend" jerk you around. Hire A Lawyer, File Suit For Court Order To Sell The Property And Divide The Proceeds Equitably.