I recived a notice stating my certified notice a I mailed? Was received

Yes. They have 30 days to send a "reasonable offer of settlement." It's wise to allow a bit for mailing. If they don't reply or if the offer...

How can my brother in law gain power of attorney if my sister is incapacitated?

You should contact a local elder law attorney ASAP

Can I dispute this?

You should not trust your bank. Even if they made an error, they will want you to pay for it. Talk to a lawyer for help.

A coworker /friend of mine is aware of a same sex relationship I was in. It wasn't public knowledge. She's now outed me?

You may have a claim under discrimination law, which would relate to your gender and/or gender preference. You shouldn't post any more details on...

Private sale laws?

Without knowing what you said and what you can prove, we really can't say.

Last paycheck law ?

Generally they do not need to pay you for days where you were not at work. Given the amount of OT you describe, you should talk to a lawyer and...

Generally, people on leave should be left alone. But there may well be exceptions in your case, so a general answer is no good here. Talk to a...

I am advocating to get a raise, but my boss told me I will get ahead if I'm nice and "get people on my side". Is this legal?

It may be discrimination; we don't know. (It may also be a violation of other laws, such as equal pay laws.) You should talk to a local...

What happens if I only send in part of a payment that I was ordered to pay?

You can 1) Work out a payment with the attorney; 2) Borrow money (working out payment with a bank of a friend) 3) File a motion asking for more...

Can a parent file a formal complaint?

You may want to talk to your boss to protect yourself against a pending complaint.