What can i do ?

Violations of the order can occur directly, indirectly or thru third parties. If you believe the order has been violated, go to the police....

Can I a file for a separation or a divorce in the US ? What benefits can I secure for myself and children ?

You have some serious jurisdictional issues in order to get divorced in the US. That you lived in Chicago for a while is of no matter now. Each...

Can a son,sue his "sperm donor" ex father.

I agree with Atty. Owens. Even if there were no statute of limitations issue for a civil claim, I'm not sure any civil cause of action exists. If...

Is it illegal to have sex with him?

Age of consent is 16, but if you are a virgin, then there is a law where he can be prosecuted if you are under 18 and he induced you into sex.

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Atty. Giarusso gave you an excellent answer. The child seeking a change could be the material change of circumstances that gets him in the...

I would think not. Part of your commuting time.

Perjury will I automatically be arrested?

Fully agree with Atty. Owens' description of the process. If you believe you are being investigated, do not reach out to the investigating...

Could the boys decide to move in with their dad? Would a judge take there feelings into account?

A move of that nature should not cause a stir unless father makes it so, and as noted, staying in the same schools with friends might be an issue....

Can I tell the company they have no right to expose any limitations on my future career path as long as I agree with the NDA?

The other answers are spot on. You have the opportunity to negotiate anything you want, and whether you can trade away a non-compete for your...

What are my options for purchasing real estate without my spouse take 50% later? Rent to Own? Legal Letter signed by my spouse?

Absent agreement with your spouse, there is no guarantee that can be given to you here. A post-nup has been suggested, but if you two are really...