What are the exact legal actions or general steps required to start up a nonprofit organization?

It's a complicated process. It helps to have someone who knows the process assist you.

You can try but the right person to ask is the personal representative

Can I sue the tax preparer for the full amount owed to me??

I don't know any tax preparer that would use their own account for a clients refund. Talk to them. If you have no luck get an attorney.

Can I find my Submitted tax info YEARS 2011 and 2012 if I HAVE NO copies at this time? I really Overpaid thank you

You can get copies directly from IRS.

Can I file taxes as independent?

Yes. But you need to look at the impact on your family if they can claim you as a dependent. You may still need to file your own retur as a dependent

Is this how the IRS really is? How do I know if I'm actually in trouble with the IRS?

This is most likely a scam. The IRS send notices to you. You can call the IRS to confirm.

How do I get a copy of the 1098 form if I can claim?

If you don't own the home you cannot deduct the pmi and interest. There is no deduction on the federal return for rent paid.

Can I donate my house to the non-profit. Have it make the sale, payoff my mortgage, pay me over years, and save tax cost?

Trying to play games with the IRS will just get you into trouble. Sell the house, pay the tax and keep the rest. Or enter into a 1031 exchange.

It sounds like you can file as head of household but consult with a tax preparer.

Am I legally obliged to pay for tax services that were completed but never filed on my behalf?

A tax preparer has an obligation of returning your original documents. I know many tax preparers who will not file the return until the invoice is...