How long after separate can I get divorced?

You do not need a formal separation. You can file now, your agreement, if properly prepared, will state your intentions as to property, debts, etc.

There are many issues here. No she cannot get property accumulated after the divorce, as to increased alimony an attorney would need to discuss...

It appears you have the makings if supervised visits but in such matters you really need to sur down with an attorney who will ask you many more...

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Which will be the official divorce date?

No, in 30 days you will get a Divorce Nisi that says divorce absolute will happen in 90 days. (120 days from court date). You won't get any more...

Can custody be changed if a parents moved 35 miles away however child continues to be schooled in old district?

Probably, there will be an investigation to change parenting plan.

Can I require my ex to provide our children with separate beds?

If Father refuses a written request for separate bedrooms then file a modification if custody wuth an emergency motion yo take away overnight visits.

What happens if the person who had a restraining order against me ends up attending my school?

I agree, but add that he should NOT attend until the r. O. is amended. An attorney can assist.

A good divorce attorney will guide you through this process. A contested divorce with custody issues and no property could take 12 to 18 months....

What means?

It means nothing has happened on your case.

IF you are entitled to a share it will be spelled out in your divorce agreement or judgment.