A notarized letter signed by both partys hold up in court?

NO

It possible to get arrearage lowered since payments should have been adjusted a long time ago?

No. Ever think that the insurance and private schooling ended because you failed to pay support?

Do I need a child custody attorney, will my newborn be taken away?

It's possible, but not likely. You need to make sure you clean up your life for both you and your child. If you take the right steps and agree to...

My ex husband has not seen his seven year old son for four years even though he can. Can I take away his rights?

The are three issues here: your rights, his rights and the fiance's rights. You asked about your rights. You have the right to seek to terminate...

Should the income of my spouse have an effect on my ex's child support obligations?

Your new spouse's income should not have an effect unless you are "underemployed". The guidelines will take your income and your ex's income...

Is paying an attorney out of my joint account allowed

You can pay your reasonable legal fees and your necessary and usual living expenses. Take it now before your spouse does!

If my parents gave me money for my wedding and I was only married a few weeks

Judges in such short marriages typically want to put the parties back to the positions there were in before the marriage. Most judges would...

I am licensed in both MA and NH. The number of hours spent on a case should be the same in both states. Dealing with all the same issues. ...

Help, I feel stuck and don't know where to file

You can file in MA. Sounds like the marriage counseling in MA was the final straw. MA is where the marriage suffered an irretrievable breakdown. ...

How can I serve my ex-wife for contempt if her address has been impounded by the court (Cambridge Probate Court, Cambridge, MA)?

You have the Court serve her at the address they have on file. See the clerk.