How can l obtain my name back in short list for immigration?

No there is no specific format and you can write directly to the asylum office to request expedited interview scheduling.

Filing for spouse visa while on Green card vs Citizen

It is best to consult with an attorney to review which may be better given the timing of naturalization. It may be worthwhile to file the I130 to...

Immigration question: Is it normal for USCIS to take this long to review a case??

Yes this is fairly normal given the lengthy adjudication for I360 and does not indicate the outcome of your case.

Conditional green card till July 10 2019. Uscis received I-751 July 9. Still in 90 days window??

Yes this is still within the 90 day window as USCIS received it prior to the I751 expiration.

No you do not need to complete a new I864. The household member should submit I864A with supporting evidence.

Yes you may email the consulate again to request a copy of the denial decision for your reference. This will indicate the specific basis for why...

Need information about DS-260 application form?

You should contact NVC for any changes that need to be made to the case that was created.

What "good cause" should i tell them?

You should file immediately and provide an explanation including your post-partum with evidence to support this.

How long it takes to get your work permit after doing your biometrics? Under the VAMA with an approved i360?

It should be 3-4 months after biometrics.

Yes you may concurrently file for the I485 and work permit with the pending VAWA.