Can someone help me to process a waiver?

Best to contact an attorney for guidance. You can use the Avvo search tool for assistance.

It appears that your case is being adjudicated and you should receive correspondence within 45 days.

Adjustment of Status to lawful permanent residence?

You wouldn’t indicate that he is adjusting in the US based on nature of filing.

I want to submit a VAWA and I do not have the money to appoint a lawyer,

There are many attorneys who offer reduced fees. Use the Avvo search tool to find a reputable attorney.

I agree with my colleagues. Answers to questions should be 1. Yes, 2. Yes, 3. No based on information provided.

You may be eligible for a waiver of the joint filing requirement. Consult with an attorney for guidance.

You appear eligible for a waiver of the joint filing requirement. It is best to consult and work with an attorney for such a filing.

VAWA cases are taking up to 2 years in some instances for processing. Contact the VAWA unit directly to inquire.

I agree with my colleagues. The I485 will need to be filed with the court.

Should I apply for extension again?

Yes, you may apply for a second extension