Yes this should be sufficient and can provide updated evidence at time of interview. You may consult with an attorney for guidance.

I have on pending i601a uscis send my a request for evidence my wife being holding this above me head I being thought abuse ?

It is best to consult with an attorney for guidance about an RFE response.

Based on what you indicated, you may petition for your spouse.

DO I HAVE TO GO BACK AND APPLY ? CAN I STAY AND START THE PROCCES HERE .

Sibling petitions can take 10-12 years and they are not adjustment eligible.

I130 how to answer previous petition question

Approximate dates in good faith are sufficient.

How could I tell if I paid I-485 fee and no need to paid work authorization fee (or I-765 fee)?

There is no additional fee for the I765 if you are filing form I485.

Travel while waiting for I-751 notice letter with an unexpired GC

Yes you should be able to return without issue as your GC will still be valid.

You should be able to travel domestically or to Puerto Rico without issue.

As a US citizen, you can remain outside of the country for as long as you wish.

Can I get approved without passport photos on removal of conditions form I 175 ? I forgot to add them ?

It should still be accepted and photos will be requested if needed.