No her actions should not impact your application.

No this is not possible based on circumstances.

ESTA is not possible unfortunately based on information provided.

Best to check USCIS case status and processing times for guidance.

Best to reach out to USCIS by writing to inquire further.

Depends on how you acquired the DL.

Depends on whether he received a Notice to Appear.

Contact USCIS to inquire about case status based on delayed adjudication.

The I130 must be approved for the I485 to be approved.

Yes you may apply for change of status based on marriage.