Best to consult with your retained attorney or seek out a second opinion.

This is best communicated to a family law attorney. Good luck.

You must make contact with NVC within the year to keep the case active.

Yes that is generally how the review process goes.

You may file a second extension but within the 6 month validity window of the first request.

They will look at your income for the previous tax year.

Once the divorce is finalized, your stay will be voided.

Yes that should not be a problem for travel.

Best to use the Avvo search tool to find a reputable attorney.

Yes it can take 30-90 days every time case is reviewed.