You will need to file a Joint Motion asking the court to approve the QDRO. Depending on the court you may be able to also ask that the court do...

Is this reasonable??

Your recourse would be to file a Complaint for Modification. It also depends on the terms of your divorce agreement. It sounds like you have...

Went to mediation have a divorce deal worked out but ex wont sign final decree.

If she is not willing to sign the final agreement, I would suggest going back to mediation to find out why. You cannot force her to sign. It is...