Dividing repair costs is normally just a negotiation between the buyer and seller (unless the signed purchase contract addresses the issue). If the sides cannot agree on a split, the recourse is to terminate the purchase contract and walk away. The appraisal report is usually for the lender, and has no bearing on who should pay for repairs. The fact that an appraisal is higher than the agreed-upon purchase price does not mean that you are required to pay for repairs - but it doesn't mean the...
The Notice of Trustee's Sale should have the contact information for the Trustee (which is probably a law firm). Call them to find out how to proceed. There's a good chance the owner (your landlord) assigned your rent payments to the lender as part of the loan.
Has the lease ended? If so, you do have the right to an itemized list of any deductions from your security deposit. I'm not sure if that's what you're asking about, or if it's what you've already received. You can ask the landlord for a copy of any invoices for maintenance or repair, but there may not be a separate invoice for your unit, if the landlord has somebody on staff do the work. Hope this helps.
Under ARS 33-814(g) anti-deficiency protection applies to a trustee's sale on a residential deed of trust, whether it is purchase money or not. For the protection to apply, make sure that the foreclosure is non-judicial (i.e. trustee's sale). Also, the rental home must be on less than 2.5 acres of land and be a single one- or two-family dwelling. This means the home must be completely constructed and at least occasionally occupied (by the owner or a tenant).
I'm sorry to hear about your great-grandmother. You should contact a probate attorney licensed in Kansas (or wherever your great grandmother lived) to develop a case. You mention that she was of sound mind when she signed her will; was that also true when she signed her POA? If not, then the POA wasn't valid. Another factor to examine is that some POA's specifically provide for tax-deferred vehicles - like IRA's - in order to make sure minimum distributions and other requirements are met,...
I'm licensed in Arizona, but here is some basic guidance. If your name is on the deed, then you would need to sign a new deed if your ex tries to sell the house. It isn't clear from your facts if you are divorced. If so, your settlement should say what happens to the house. If you aren't divorced, you ought to talk to a divorce attorney licensed in North Carolina before proceeding on the house - there are probably important factors to consider, which may affect your rights.
Your wife can sign and record a deed transferring her interest in the property to you (or whomever should have title instead of her). You should carefully review your loan documents to be sure the transfer is allowed. If not, you may need to get it approved by the lender.
Arizona allows you to use a power of attorney to delegate parental authority for up to six months. Check out ARS 14-5104 here: http://tinyurl.com/68u9ka7 The POA needs to be notarized and witnessed, but it doesn't need to be filed with a court. You would have to get the POA renewed every six months, assuming the child is still under your care at that point.
It might be easier and cheaper for you to let your city handle it. Most cities have a nuisance code, which prohibits the kinds of activities you mention. Call your city's nuisance code compliance department (it can also be the building inspection department), and let them know about the situation. A city inspector might have better luck getting your neighbors to take care of their pool.
If I understand your question correctly, you will only be able to move back into the apartment if/when the restraining order is lifted. Any questions regarding your Section 8 assistance should be sent to your local public housing authority (which is often the city or county).