Your attorney can do nothing until the charges / report is filed by the officer. No one can "make" him file it.
You have no right to any tests for the charge of DUI. The law in Texas is ZERO tolerance for any person under 21 to have any alcohol in them and drive.
If you told the officer what you said here (with the time, etc.), then he was probably messing with you and has no intention of filing the charge, and it might simply go away. Otherwise, it does not sound like they can make...
Only your lawyer is in the best position to give you advice on your case because your lawyer has seen all the reports and evidence. if the case is not defensible (cannot be won at trial), then you are sort of at the mercy of the prosecutor because if the kids were under 14 and if you were intoxicated, there is no getting around that it was a felony.
Perhaps your lawyer can use your history and the loss of benefits as well as suggest some more tough conditions to add to get the DA to agree...
No. Working as a special prosecutor means that on a specific case, the DA's office had a conflict and got an outside lawyer - a criminal defense lawyer - to handle the prosecution of that case. Generally that means that the DA's office respects that lawyer and the lawyer's integrity. Logically, such is more likely to have a positive impact on the judge as well. (Seemingly the DA & judge would rely more on the lawyer who they accept as a special prosecutor....)
Without some evidence of...
If the door to let in the prior is not opened (for example by the accused saying, "I've never been through this kind of thing" or his/her mom says, "Little Johnny would never do something like this".......), then it is not admissible. The lawyer for the accused will have prepared an objection and have a copy of the edited version ready to substitute when the prosecutor offers the damning information.
Unfortunately, there is nothing that can be done to remove this from your record. It is a final conviction that cannot be expunged nor sealed (nondisclosure.) The judge has zero say so in changing the fact of your conviction.
Those are two different ways to charge an offense. If a jury did not believe that you were intoxicated, they could still convict you of the felony offense of assaulting someone with your motor vehicle. Talk with your lawyer about these issues.