Insurance companies have conducted a study that shows they can settle much much cheaper when a claimant is not represented by counsel.
In my state, that amount can go up as much as five to ten times ONCE YOU HIRE A LAWYER.
Hire one, now.
The state has an obligation to protect its people. Some crimes demand action and the Secretary of State has been authorized by the General Assembly, signed by the Governor. to so act. If you want to change the law, you may write your legislator to begin the process. That law itself, as written now, is consititutional.
Internet privacy rights are in a state of flux. Federal rulings and state rulings by the various state court systems provide some guidance, but each situation is very fact specific. Without a great deal more information about the particulars in your situation, a meaning answer is not possible.
A good number of commentators suggest that the internet is a public forum with little privacy options available. Inroads to adopt and enforce privacy rights are being made, however.
Rather than write them for yourself, have the coach and professor write them in their own words. Character letters from the actual source make sense unless you know something here that the post does not reveal.
No matter which way you go, you must hire a lawyer BEFORE anything of any kind on your behalf goes into the case. Hire the lawyer to review the letters written BEFORE they go to the judge.
To be able to collect, you may need to name all potential defendants in the Complaint. That includes but is not limited to the partners. And it may be a sound tactic as well as a jurisdictional requirement, depending on a number of factors your post does not mention.
See a lawyer for a full review.