You can file a petition for dissolution of marriage (divorce) against your spouse and rather than serve the petition personally, since you don't know where your spouse is, you will have to publish notice as is required in your particular location. Often that is done by publishing the required notice in a newspaper with general circulation. Your selection of newspaper will probably have a form for you to fill out. This type of service by publication will enable you to get divorced but the...
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