Each state has very specific laws on the responsibilities of landlords and whether they can be sued for defects in the structure. I urge you to call a local attorney. Most will advise you for no initial charge.
The accident will be your fault. The question is how did that collision cause so much damage? first you have to get case opened if you can. If this is in small claims court you may be able to do it yourself. If not, you'll need the help of an attorney.
If your ability to legally drive a car and your freedom are important to you, you need to consult with a knowledgeable and experienced OWI/criminal defense attorney. Unless there was a constitutional violation of your rights in the stop, search or arrest, you are almost certainly going to be convicted. The issue is what the consequences will be. Experienced lawyers know how to get you prepared for sentencing and what alternatives are available to you. It could mean less time for license...
I agree with earlier advise. I'd be particularly careful of telling the police whether you voluntarily allowed him to use your car, if he was not properly licensed. I'd also wonder if you are getting straight story from boyfriend about who caused accident. I recommend you get copy of accident report and review it with an attorney.
The professioinal staff has an obligation to have an accurate understanding of your full medical status. A person could have contra-indicated medications or conditions that must be understood by the treating health care providers. Prior AODA and Pscychological/Psychiatric records are more highly protected and do not necessarily have to be disclosed. Methodone is a powerful drug that affects the central nervous system and it is reasonable that the treators want to be thorough in understanding...
If the harassment is based on your religion or other protected area (gender, age, sexual orientation, race) then you may have a civil rights claim. Wisconsin has a reasonably good enforcement system. You would contact the state and an attorney.
I recommend you write a detailed account and send it store manager and to corporate office. I'd ask for apology and explanation of what corrective action they will take regarding loss prevention guy. Occasionally corporations will surprise you with how seriously they take such written complaints.