The court will not award money for emotional distress in a divorce case. To the extent the dissipation depleted the marital estate the court will make the party that did it pay the money back or order an unequal split of the estate to make up the difference.
If you are not married to him and there are no court orders then you can move otherwise you have to petition the court or get his written consent. Contact my office for free consultation. 727-446-7659.