I will try my best to answer this with the information you have provided. You state you are settling the arrears. One option would be to file a motion with the court to have either the judge or child support hearing officer enter something declaring your child support to be fully paid with no remaining arrearages. Another option would be to pursue a joint stipulation with your ex-partner, where she acknowledges that you are fully paid up on child support and that your obligation to pay child...