If you were convicted of Disorderly Conduct as part of a plea bargain, then your record would be sealed pursuant to CPL section 160.50. That section among other things requires the court to notify the arresting agency to destroy the ,"prints and mug shots" If you were arrested for Disorderly Conduct and pled guilty, then you were not printed, as it is not a printable offense.
Another issue, is your husband eligible for a conditional license? The NYS DMV website contains information regarding his eligibility and what he must do to obtain that privilage
If I understand your question, you failed to appear in a PA. Court in 1983 on an inspection charge and on a driving while suspended charge. First off I would guess that you have a valid NY driver's license, therefore the PA. Court did not suspend you for failure to appear. As far as the warrant , I would contact a local attorney who can ascertain whether a warrant is in effect. If one is, the the issuing Court needs to be dealt with.
I assume that you were convicted of misdemeanor DWI.Under the Compact receiving States are not required to accept supervision on misdemeanor convictions. I would first contact your original attorney , if he or she is not interested then retain a "new" one to move the Court to re-sentence you to a conditional disharge. Be prepared to pay all fines and surcharges due. Refer to the NYS DMV website regarding licensing issues .
Your NY probation officer through his County Probation Department is supervising you because of the Interstate Compact. Jurisdiction remains with the Sentencing Court out of Pa. If you have proof of completion of the Community Service provide proof to both the NY and PA. probation departments.
Attorneys in New York are subect to the Rules of Professional Conduct. Rule 3.4(e)states, "A lawyer shall not present ,participate in presenting ,or threaten to present criminal charges solely to obtain an advantage in a civil matter"